@cfrank, I don't know how to calculate a probability distribution over a collection of rankings. Maybe someone who knows statistics can understand your proposal and maybe critique it.
In regard to "tragedy", I judge that too broad a word, as it includes accidents, and "past", not fully accurate, because, among other reasons, Mr. Biden is killing children by the minute with US resources.
I ask you to join me in mourning the death of Layan Mohammed Sayed Al-Aker, who was two years old, a girl.
I ask you to join me in spending a minute and a few tears on Samir Mahmoud Hassan Abu Al-Hawa, who was a man, aged 62.
I received the suggestion to "hold space" from an organization, the "US Campaign for Palestinian Rights". Is this organization a grift? Yes, to an extent, they probably are, as indicated by the fact that they have an "executive director", which usually means a person drawing pay out of donations. Nevertheless, I judge the message of this organization more honest than the official story, which "happy Thanksgiving" ties into. This organization suggests for things-taking day, among other practices (which I admit to not having followed):
When you gather with your loved ones, hold space for mourning the mass killing of Indigenous people from Turtle Island to Palestine. Hold a mourning ritual based in your community’s traditions. You may read the names and stories of our beloved people killed by colonial violence (for example, see here).
So I'm endorsing this organization's request, the one that I repeated above, in the context of your having wished me a happy Thanksgiving at this fraught time.